Posts Tagged ‘cemetery’

A Time of Thanks Forever and Ever and Ever

November 4, 2014

And God asked the feline spirit

Are you ready to come home?

Oh, yes, quite so, replied the precious soul

And, as a cat, you know I am most able.

Are you coming then?  Asked God.

Soon, replied the whiskered angel

But I must come slowly

For my human friends are troubled

For you see, they need me quite certainly.

But don’t they understand? Asked God

That you’ll never leave them?

That your souls are intertwined. For all eternity?

That nothing is created or destroyed?

It just is….forever and ever and ever.

Eventually they will understand,

Replied the glorious cat

For I will whisper into their hearts

That I am always with them

I just am….forever and ever and ever.Stanley in plant6

Pet Memorial Day – September 14, 2014

September 26, 2014

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It was a beautiful day with blue skies and a gentle breeze caressing our faces.  There were so many folks in attendance; we brought out extra chairs for those who wanted to sit during the ceremony and blessing of the animals.  We thank our many friends who were able to attend and for those who could not be there, we were with you in Spirit and Prayer.  Although, National Pet Memorial Day was held at Rolling Acres Memorial Gardens and other special events across the country on September 14, 2014, we can memorialize our pets any day of the year.  Creating a special memorial for your pet can be as simple or elaborate as you desire.  It is personal preference and what ever is meaningful to you.  Included are a few suggestions, should you desire to create your own personalized memorial for your beloved pet.  Anything you decide to do should meet your special need to express your sorrow over your loss and share your feelings while paying a tribute to the special bond you share with your pet.

If you like to write, create a special poem or story about your pet. It can be in the form of an article, song, letter, obituary or eulogy sharing your feelings about saying goodbye to your special pet.

Share verbal stories and let others know it is okay to talk about their feelings about your pet.  It is better to keep the memories alive rather than act as though nothing has changed.

Place a small clipping of fur, feather, or teeth in a small container or locket.

If your pet had a special skill or competed in events, create a memory book, shadow box, or make a wall hanging from the ribbons.  Some people make quilts or pillows from the ribbon fabric from the pet’s winning competitions.

Decorate a candle or candle holder and light it in memory of your beloved pet.

Write his or her name on a balloon and release the balloon.

Donate a  book to the a local library in honor of your pet.  Please the pet’s name on the bookplate inside the front cover of the book.

Children need to express their grief also.  Create an art corner where they can draw pictures, write stories, or just talk about their memories of their pet.

Have a professional artist create a painting of your pet from a favorite photo.

Have items imprinted (watch, mug, notepads, t-shirt, etc.) with your pet’s photo.

Purchase a stuffed animal or statue that resembles your pet and put your pet’s collar around its neck.

There are many ways to memorialize your pet.  Check out these webpages for more ideas.

http://www.visitrollingacres.com

http://www.lovinghearts.com

http://www.pet-loss.net

http://www.dogtime.com

http://www.vetstreet.com

Memorial Day – Memories from beginning to middle to end –

May 17, 2014

 

Eternal Memory

Most people when they add a pet to their family often only think about the exciting beginning.  They look forward to many years of companionship (the middle), but rarely consider the last days of their pet’s life with them.  As we share our life journey with our pets, there are ten tips to consider for the end stages of life with our beloved pets.

1.  How will you know when it is time to euthanize your pet?

2.  Should you stay during the euthanasia?

3.  What are your next steps?

4.  You may ask yourself, “do others feel as emotionally distressed as I do, or am I overreacting?”

5.  What can you expect to feel?

6.  What can you do about your feelings?

7.  Who can you talk with about your feelings?

8.  What should you tell the children (if you have any)?

9.  What if you notice your other pets acting in a strange manner?

10. Should you get another pet right away?

These questions and more information can be found on the Rolling Acres Memorial Gardens website:   http://www.visitrollingacres.com/faqs.html

Feel free to call any time to discuss any of these questions, or other questions you may have.

This is a very challenging time in your life journey with your pet.  Rolling Acres Memorial Gardens is here to help you during this time in the life of you and your pet.

We invite you to visit Rolling Acres Memorial Gardens at any time.

M – Making

E – Every

M – Moment an

O – Opportunity to

R – Reflect  on

Y – Yesterdays

Let Your Love Grow

April 25, 2014

“What we have once enjoyed we can never lose.  All that we love deeply becomes a part of us.”  Helen Keller

Your beloved pet has passed away, you chose a private cremation so you have your pet’s ashes and you are wondering what to do next. How do you memorialize such a special relationship? There are so many options and decisions to make and your mind is so overwhelmed with the grieving of your loss, it is difficult to know what to do.

“Let Your Love Grow” is a relatively new option that many people are unaware of when  making decisions about memorializing of their pet.  “Let Your Love Grow” provides the opportunity to have a living memorial of your pet, by using the cremated ashes of a loved one to nourish the plant.  A common misconception is that cremated ashes can be used by themselves in the ground, under or around  a new or existing plant or tree, and that the ashes will help the plants grow.  On the contrary, the cremated ashes on their own will not allow for the release of the nutrients which as in the pet’s ashes.  Instead of nurturing plants, the untreated ashes will actually harm surrounding plant life.  The high pH of cremated ash does not allow nutrients to become available for plant life; additionally, the high sodium (salt) content of cremated ash can harm plant life.  “Let Your Love Grow” is a specially formulated organic mixture that lowers the pH and dilutes the harmful sodium (salt), as well as releases the nutrients from the cremated ashes. Regular soil and potting soil will not do this.  Using “Let Your Love Grow” is the answer to creating a living memorial.

Creating a living memorial is actually a very simple process.  Here are the steps:

1. Select a plant appropriate for your climate and situation.

2. Mix the appropriate amount of cremated ashes with “Let Your Love Grow” (we at Rolling Acres will help you with this; both the amounts and mixing, if you desire.)

3. Plant this mixture along with your chosen plant.

4. Water in abundance to keep plants healthy.

In the grief process, many of us want to have something we can touch and see to remind us of the one who is no longer here and keep them close to us of the one who is no longer here and keep them close to us. Nothing could ever replace that life; however, selecting a plant or tree for your home or garden is a wonderful way to cherish and celebrate the special bond you have with your pet. A plant or tree is a living memorial – a way to express love that has not ended with death. the circle of life is continued when nourished by “Let Your Love Grow” and the cremated ashes.  Something extraordinary truly happens as it becomes a living symbol of the special life you shared.

 

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Let Your Love Grow

 

 

Count Your Blessings

April 19, 2014

ImageA friend of mine lost her best friend last week.  Her furry friend passed away due to old age.  He had been her constant companion for a decade,  helping her through many trials.  My friend, you see, is confined to a wheelchair.  Most of us love the pets in our lives, and they are  often considered family members.  To someone like my friend, Sammy, her beloved pet was also her support dog.  Her lifeline if you will.  Sammy has been counting her blessings in recent days.  Instead of having a pity party, she decided to count her blessings.  She states, “each day is your birthday” when you open your eyes and realize you have been gifted another day.  Sammy has coined the phrase “anti-pity party” or “Sammy-isms.”  She truly believes in the words of Willie Nelson, “when I started counting my blessings, my whole life turned around for the better.”  To join Sammy in her mission takes only a few simple steps:

Sammy-ism #1 – Be glad for family and friends, cherish them

Sammy-ism #2 – Be thankful for what you have, not what you don’t have

Sammy-ism #3 – Don’t let technology take the place of personal interactions

Sammy-ism #4 – Savor good health, it is one thing that can be fleeting

Sammy-ism #5 – Take responsibility for your education, a mind is a terrible thing to waste

Sammy-ism #6 – Be thankful for coworkers, being part of team makes a job easier

Sammy-ism #7 – Praise people when they do something good, don’t just comment on things they do wrong

Sammy-ism #8 – Accept a compliment gracefully, it is a gift of kindness from the giver

Sammy-ism #9 – We can all learn from each other, the load is lighter when shared

Sammy-ism #10 – Nothing lasts forever, cherish each moment with loved ones